Monday, January 16, 2012

One Word

I'm seeing it pop up everywhere but I first heard this idea from my wonderful sister. Pick one word, just one, to reflect on for the year. I've been contemplating what my word would be since the first of the year and I think I've finally found one. Before I reveal it, a little explanation of my thought process. 2012 is certainly going to be different than 2011. I didn't have a word for 2011 but probably needed one. When I think back to 2011 the words that come mind - chaos, stress, anxiety, unsettled. Certainly not positive words and certainly not ones I would have hung around my neck and reflected on every day. Perhaps my word for 2011 should have been faith or trust. Because those were what I needed to get through and were two powerful words that brought me to 2012. 2011 was a year of change - I graduated, we decided where we wanted to live and raise our family, I got a new job, we bought a new house. In early 2011 I struggled as a mom and student. During the summer I stressed myself out as we had no idea where we'd go, where we'd be, where I'd work. Things calmed down and by the end of 2011, things were clear and those pesky words and feelings began to dissipate. And so when it came to find a word for 2012 I had a lot to choose from - settled, peace, content, family. I've thrown many around in the last few weeks until I settled on one. One that seems to reflect how far we come and will help me celebrate what is still to be. And that word is ...



Grateful for mine, my husband, and my daughter's health.

Grateful that we don't want for anything.

Grateful that we have more than we need and are finding ways to share our excess with others.

Grateful that even when you don't see him or ask for him, God is there.

Grateful that the words I was able to reflect on are positive this year.

And the list could go on and on ... and so this year I give thanks and strive to wake up each day with a grateful heart.


What's your word of the year?

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Saturday, January 14, 2012

2

Two years ago tonight I went to bed in tears. I was convinced I was going to be pregnant forever and ever and ever. Little did I know just 24 hours later my precious girl would be in my arms. Two years later I go to bed with a huge smile on my face and a love and joy in my heart I never could have fathomed. When Brynna wakes up tomorrow she will be 2, two, TWO!!!!!! Where has the time gone? Brendan and I look at each other every day and say, "Can you really believe she is ours?" I realize it's been awhile since I've done an update on her. Life has caught up to us and between fulltime work and parenting, there just hasn't been the time to get on this blog. But here's what she's up to these days ...

She is learning at every turn. She knows all of her colors, a lot of shapes, can count to 30, knows her ABCs, and is starting to identify letters. She will tell you the "B is for Brynna" and "D is for daddy" and is able to point some of them out. We continue to be amazed at her memory! We tell her or show her something once and she can recall it days or weeks later.

Her vocal skills continue to amaze us and her teachers at school. She speaks in full sentences, can communicate clearly with us, and continues to be Miss Manners. We are so proud of how well she is doing! It's so wonderful to be able to carry on a conversation with her and know exactly what she needs or wants.


This morning she woke up, decided to put on her "special undies" and then spent the rest of the day using the potty! We had a few near misses - small accidents on the way to the toilet. But also lots of successes and she was on her way to the right place, just didn't make it in time, during her 2 accidents. So we'll see how tomorrow goes! We had been tossing around the idea of potty training but she seems to have made the choice for us!

What is she into these days? Elmo, her kitchen set, puzzles, babies (pause so someone can insert the "perhaps you should make her a big sister" comment, ok, moving on), music, singing, coloring, painting ... the list could go on and on. She is also all girl - pink, pink, pink! Singing is a big one. She will randomly burst into song - Five Little Monkeys, ABCs, Moves Like Jagger, you name it, she knows most of the lyrics!


She is also miss stubborn at times. She has decided she needs to pick out her own clothes in the morning. This is one battle we are not willing to take on so we let her. And sometimes she matches. And sometimes she goes to school in 3 shades of pink with a monkey on the butt of her pants and Elmo on her shirt. And then we take photos so we can show them to her when she is 16. But the stubborness comes in handy too because it turns into perseverance, hence the potty training. So we choose our battles, and matching clothes, and pretties in her hair just aren't worth the fight.


I am sure there is much, much more that I am just not thinking of. Right now I need to get to bed so I can wake up with my TWO year old tomorrow to celebrate! Daddy loves to make a big deal about birthdays so I'm sure the whole day will be wonderful. We are so thankful to have such a wonderful, sweet, healthy little girl in our lives. Two years ago tonight I never could have imagined how my life would change. We are so lucky to be your parents, Brynna Evelyn! Happy 2nd Birthday big girl!

Happy Birthday to Meeeeeeee!!!

Brynna has been singing herself happy birthday for awhile now. And why not? We celebrated Brynna's birthday a week early so this year she got a birthday week, not a day. Just like her daddy insists he gets each year. Her grandma, grandpa, auntie, and cousins were in town for a late Christmas and we wanted to make sure they could join in the celebration. And celebrate we did! We threw her an Elmo party (her favorite!) and she had a blast. The entire morning of she was running around the house yelling "Elmo Party!" We even got a special CD - Elmo sings all of her favorite songs and her name is included! We were so blessed so many of our wonderful friends were able to come help us celebrate. It was amazing to see the difference from her first birthday party to this one. She loved opening presents, talking to everyone, and eating her cupcake. No tears this time around!




Munching on goldfish with cousin Sophie before our friends arrive!
She refused to take a photo with us, this is the best we did. Someone had to help her photo bomb it.
But of course she was all smiles and posing with Uncle Pete!
Tearing into the gifts.
Elmo cupcake cake
"Happy Birthday to you ..."
Yummy!
Happy Birthday to my sweet girl!
We got a great photo of all the kids at her first birthday so I wanted one at her second. And this is what we ended up with. So much easier when they weren't mobile.